Looking for an Asian woman on Perfect Asian Match to date or for marriage? You may think you know all about stereotypical Asian women, the dating rituals, and how to establish a long-term relationship with such a woman.
But what about the Asian continent itself… do you know it all, or is it homework time? Asia is a huge continent comprising many countries—with the people having many different social and cultural aspects to their lives. On Perfect Asian Match there are Asian women as members from all across the continent: so, if you are seriously planning to date an Asian woman maybe it’s time for some self-improvement or enlightenment?
Dating Asian women needs you to know as much as you can
When you are looking through Perfect Asian Match for an Asian woman for dating or for marriage, grouping Asian women together as one type or mass of people is counterproductive. Depending upon where you draw the boundaries of the Asian continent, Asia is inhabited by some 50-60% of the world’s population. Thinking that a Filipina or Thai woman has the same temperament and characteristics, same social skills and cultural upbringing as a woman from Hong Kong or the Chinese Mainland is clearly incorrect. Or believing that a Korean woman is the same as an Indonesian or Vietnamese is as faintly ridiculous as comparing an English woman with an Italian, a Swede with a Russian or an American woman with one from Argentina!
Yet some male acquaintances of mine, usually new to Asia or new to dating Asian women, continue to lump all of Asian women together as if they are a homogeneous entity. They then wonder why they never seem to make any progress with their love-lives. And why the women on Perfect Asian Match don’t necessarily respond in the same way to questions they ask.
A Perfect Asian Match is about more than physical appearance
Of course, to gain experience of dating Asian women needs time, and for the young, or not so young, man in a hurry it simply becomes a question of trial and error—hardly the way to get on in the long term. Just ask any sales person or successful businessman, one of the key maxims is to know your product and know your market—before you try to enter it!
Much of what I am about to write is, actually, common sense but, to those blinded by the beauty and femininity of Asian women, sometimes even this seems to be lacking. For those determined to find the love of their lives through Perfect Asian Match will only find true compatibility and a great long-term relationship if they understand, as best they can, Asian woman. Of course, not many men truly understand women, per se, but knowing as much as you can about the social and cultural background of the Asian woman you plan to date certainly helps. So, here we go:
- learn to distinguish between women from China, Japan, Korea, Thailand and so on; both in the physical and mental characteristics of the women (yes, they do differ!) But, firstly, make sure you know where the concerned country actually is—some men in the US, for example, persist in thinking that Japan is in China (I’ve seen the addressed envelopes!). Or some men in the UK will find it hard to actually pinpoint The Philippines on a map of the world;
- it’s no good learning Mandarin Chinese if your Asian lady is from Hong Kong or Korea, pointless to study Cantonese if she is Vietnamese or Thai. Unfortunately, most foreigners never really get to grips with some of the more difficult Asian languages but, at least, give it a go. You might be pleasantly surprised at how much your Asian lady appreciates your efforts. Just make sure it’s the right language you try to learn!
- food is absolutely an integral part of Asian life, either through formal or informal dining; so, read up on local favorite foods (sushi, kimchi, dim sum etc) and delicacies. Learn about which foods are no-no’s. On one of your dates let your Asian lady take you out and about to demonstrate her knowledge of what’s good and what‘s not, food wise. She’ll be thrilled to display her knowledge;
- find out about outstanding local customs, festivals (such as Chinese New Year or Songkran (Thai New Year)) and events. Maybe even learn something about the country’s history (ie why did the US occupy The Philippines, and who was there before them?), plus local sensitivities about neighboring countries
Asian women are usually proud of their country
I can hear all the groans now—foreign men looking through Perfect Asian Match reading this saying, “I want to date or marry the beautiful Asian woman I’ve just met, not her country or her culture or her food.”
Unlike many western women, most Asian women are relatively nationalistic and proud of their country and culture. If you can’t get to grips with even the basic knowledge then you’ll find dating the right woman for that special long-term relationship that much harder… or worse come to worse you might even not find anyone perfect at all….