Whether you are new to Asian Dating or been around for a while, there are questions you should ask before you jump in. If you’ve been dating for a while but feel you are just not meeting the people you are interested in, it could mean you haven’t defined who you are and what you are looking for. Determine what’s important to you and what really doesn’t matter and understand your most important issues ahead of time. Ask yourself if dating someone who is Asian is very important to you or whether ethnicity doesn’t seem that important.
Two different hypothetical situations:
You are Asian but are wide open to dating different cultures including Asian. You want to find someone who shares your interests but you also enjoy learning things about other cultures outside of your Asian background. You have never considered yourself any different from any other man and were brought up in a family that never paid much attention to their family roots or the country they live in.
You met someone online who is also Asian but she was brought up believing her heritage is a very big part of her life. Customs and tradition are extremely important to her and want’s someone in her life who shares her feelings. Needless to say, the two of you are probably not a good match! You both have different viewpoints, one not being more important than the other just different.
Know Ahead Of Time What You Want:
It’s time to ask yourself some important questions to find out what you really want. Before meeting other people, you need to know what you are looking for. Let’s face it, if you were in a business proposition for a partnership, you would have to clearly lay out what you are offering and what you expect from them. The same is true when you decide to start dating. If you feel being Asian is a very important part of your life, then congratulate yourself and look for people who share the same feelings.
The Importance Of Your Culture And Customs:
There are millions of people who believe their ethnicity is something they cherish and the way they relate to others. Their personal feelings will shape their lives in the future. You and your future partner need to know what’s really important for your future highs and lows. Will you share the same things in life that are near and dear to both of you?
While heritage and culture are important, what about other things you hold dear in your life? To know if someone will be a great match should include your interests, dreams, and goals. Do you have passions in your life that you want to share with someone special? Will they share these same passions? Once you have all your questions answered, you will be ready for that special someone to come along and be a part of your life.